Vitals Trigger - Originals Magnets (118)

A little grammar can carry a surprisingly large amount of respect. Ze/hir/hirs has a long presence in gender-diverse communities and remains one of several neopronoun sets people may choose for...

Not every pronoun set ships with the default settings. Xe/xem/xyrs is one of several neopronoun systems used by some nonbinary and gender-diverse people. The fact that a pronoun is less...

Singular they survived Chaucer, Shakespeare and your last group chat, so the fridge will cope. They/them pronouns are used by many nonbinary people and plenty of others whose gender does...

Clear grammar beats making everybody infer womanhood from eyeliner and vibes. She/her pronouns can belong to cis women, trans women and other people for whom that language fits. Making pronoun...

Pronouns are information, not an invitation to convene a panel. There is a particular exhaustion in having a basic part of self-description treated like a public policy proposal. This design...

Useful information should not require strangers to reverse-engineer your gender from a haircut. Sharing he/him pronouns helps make pronoun culture ordinary rather than something only trans and nonbinary people are...

Guessing is not a sign of respect when asking takes five seconds. Some people use different pronouns at different times, and presentation does not reliably tell you which set feels...

The name badge has been completed and no supporting documents will be provided. "Born this way" became such familiar queer shorthand because it turns identity from an argument into a...

People are not a genital checklist with a personality attached. Hearts Not Parts pushes back on the habit of reducing attraction and relationships to anatomy, a habit trans people in...

The gender menu was reviewed, rejected and improved by going off-list. Genderqueer is a deliberately roomy term with a long history in queer communities. It can overlap with nonbinary identity,...

The gender can move and the affection does not lose your forwarding address. There is a tenderness in pairing genderfluid identity with love rather than explanation. Change is not the...

No fixed setting, no error message, no need to reboot. Genderfluid identity leaves room for gender to shift across time, context or feeling. That movement can involve different genders, expressions...